Category Archives: Family

Cookies and tree limbs

Time’s a-wasting: cookies, tree limbs, and grandchildren. :- Doug.

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Grandchildren left out

Give what you’ve got, or grandchildren may not get. :- Doug.

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Personal vignettes

Grandmothers seem to see life in personal vignettes; grandfathers in global how-tos. :- Doug.

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Remember longish

Making memories requires someone young enough to remember for a longish time. :- Doug.

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For sale: Snow

For sale: Snow. Warm. Frees grandchildren. Ennobles grandchildren. :- Doug.

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No divides no generations

We can connect across the divides We can connect across the generations No divides no generations only people :- Doug.

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Nice doer

Be a nice doer. :- Doug.

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Comes by wholes

Is the essence of what we want for the grandchildren that they each be more and more their real self? That comes by conversation, poetry, wholeness, and love. :- Doug.

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Includes the conflicts

Lovingkindess includes the conflicts it holds. :- Doug.

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Something in cookie baking

What is cookie baking about? Making up a story? Love is too facile an answer. There is something in the ordinary. :- Doug.

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mingled we dream up each other?

To say the grandchildren, in fact —oh, to utter them Is that not their secret stratagem unspeaking to have us express them? Otherwise they are lost to us banished by our failure to imagine them leave the unsayable aside show … Continue reading

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Caught and ignited

Caught am I by metaphorical real grandchildren snared, saved, heard, touched, infected, flung, boarded, joined, ignited :- Doug.

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Return to connection

Return to connection shaped by the stream of grandchildren your emptiness a resonance chamber perchance to hear the song our streaming makes return :- Doug.

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till they are ripe

Love the grandchildren —all the grandchildren— as no one yet has thought to love them till they are ripe :- Doug.

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Sacrifice to song?

Hounded by hatred our grandchildren are torn from the intentions of their lives will we an hour or two sacrifice to remind them of their song? :- Doug.

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Metaphorical ancestors

If all of us are grandchildren, all of us also are actual or metaphorical ancestors. :- Doug.

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have we learned?

What have we learned from our grandparents? :- Doug.

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