Category Archives: Family

Gathering intimacies

We are a gathering of the intimacies :- Doug.

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When 50

Write a letter to your grandchild to be read when she is 50. :- Doug.

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Granddaughter. 300 years.

Granddaughter. 300 years. Poking me in the chest. Across the campfire. With unvoiced questions. :- Doug.

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Why they will live

Elders are concerned not only with how the grandchildren will live, but why they will live as they will. :- Doug.

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When you caught glimpse

When you caught glimpse of us all as grandchildren, when you caught glimpse of the string of grandchildren on a long necklace, then you were of the long view, of the super human, of the elder. :- Doug.

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What in life is the value?

Whom do you want deciding your end of life? Deciding what? What does this tell the grandchildren about what in life is the value? Tell the grandchildren…what in life is the value? :- Doug.

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Cure for your wisdom:

To cure you of your wisdom: family. :- Doug.

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Grandchild quick

Grandchild Quick imaginative Running cuddling story-telling Teen years open promises Rachel :- Doug.

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Eyes of a grandchild

Intention becomes focus gazing into the eyes of a grandchild finding amazement teaching becomes together shaken generations become fabric :- Doug.

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Three-way work

Work with the grandchildren needs to be two way, or rather three: we don’t simply give to the grandchildren; we may allow that they give back something to us; the third dimension is that bouncing together multidimensionally we create. :- … Continue reading

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Trajectory of grandchildren

We cannot affect the trajectory of the grandchildren by our intention, nor can we without it. Intend and lose your intentions. :- Doug.

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One essence contraries

One essence of the work For the Grandchildren is to be able to make contraries (cf Blake) integral to one another. :- Doug.

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Einstein’s circle of compassion

Albert Einstein’s famous quote about optical delusions, ends with him saying “This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and affection for a few persons nearest us. Our task must be to free … Continue reading

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Grandchild you are complex

Grandchild you are complex aspects and facets places and people discoverable and unknowable neuron sinew heart and sky :- Doug.

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5 minutes after your death

Imagine you observing the people closest to you, 5 minutes after your death; 5 weeks. Observe now the animals nearby, pets, wild animals, birds, insects at those same 5 minutes and 5 weeks. Now observe these same people and animals … Continue reading

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Grandchildren’s issues and opportunities?

What are the issues and opportunities for the 300 year grandchild-elder? :- Doug.

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Can you trust the grandchildren?

Can you trust the grandchildren to make a world more hospitable to life? :- Doug.

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