Category Archives: Family
Gentle fun
Gentle fun travels farther than giving advice. :- Doug.
Long-term caring
Long-term caring means centering on the survival of the species. :- Doug.
Open for them
Our work/play with grandchildren is often to open them to wider worlds…as our worlds are becoming for us panoramic. :- Doug.
Barometers
Grands are barometers for the grandchildren. What are the changes? What do they portend? What might we do? Be? What is the weave of the wind, and how does it affect the weaver? :- Doug.
Advice doesn’t work
How do you touch the life of someone’s grandchild? Is it different for a babe, a teen, a parent? Giving advice doesn’t work; playfulness does. :- Doug.
Visible grandchildren
An elder finds it natural to ask “How does what I do affect the grandchildren, the community?” Consequences ripple. They become visible. Choices tend to become visible. :- Doug.
Still grand!
Even if we had no children we can still be grand. :- Doug.
Reciprocal relatedness
The strength of elders is our vulnerability—it’s what confirms our reciprocal relatedness. :- Doug.
Families in crisis
We help families in crisis get help to pay for care in a nursing home or at home. :- Doug.
Learn
Learn something. :- Doug.
Grandparents:
Grandparents: prophetic voices for our times. :- Doug.
wade in
Elders see flowing relationships and wade in need more time apart and together to ponder reflect grow :- Doug.
Play with grandparents
When was the last time you played with a grandparent? :- Doug.