Category Archives: Family

Gentle fun

Gentle fun travels farther than giving advice. :- Doug.

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Play with us

Come play with us. :- Doug.

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To depth

Play to depth. :- Doug.

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Long-term caring

Long-term caring means centering on the survival of the species. :- Doug.

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Open for them

Our work/play with grandchildren is often to open them to wider worlds…as our worlds are becoming for us panoramic. :- Doug.

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Barometers

Grands are barometers for the grandchildren. What are the changes? What do they portend? What might we do? Be? What is the weave of the wind, and how does it affect the weaver? :- Doug.

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Advice doesn’t work

How do you touch the life of someone’s grandchild? Is it different for a babe, a teen, a parent? Giving advice doesn’t work; playfulness does. :- Doug.

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Visible grandchildren

An elder finds it natural to ask “How does what I do affect the grandchildren, the community?” Consequences ripple. They become visible. Choices tend to become visible. :- Doug.

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Still grand!

Even if we had no children we can still be grand. :- Doug.

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For the grandchildren

For the grandchildren. :- Doug.

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Reciprocal relatedness

The strength of elders is our vulnerability—it’s what confirms our reciprocal relatedness. :- Doug.

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Families in crisis

We help families in crisis get help to pay for care in a nursing home or at home. :- Doug.

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Learn

Learn something. :- Doug.

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Grandparents:

Grandparents: prophetic voices for our times. :- Doug.

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wade in

Elders see flowing relationships and wade in need more time apart and together to ponder reflect grow :- Doug.

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Giving up on them

By not calling hospice sooner families are giving up on their loved ones, giving up on their ability to live their last months fully. :- Doug.

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Play with grandparents

When was the last time you played with a grandparent? :- Doug.

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